Dear sister, we see you struggling to keep your chin above water.
We see you posting happy things on Facebook.
We see the frantic look in your eyes. The jerkiness of your movements. The extra alertness needed to keep all the plates spinning.
To keep all the illusions intact.
Especially the illusion of “happy”.
We can see you’re not happy.
We can see he’s not happy.
The question for you, dearest sister, is:
Why is it important to pretend?
What would happen if you stopped?
How would your life change, really?
If there is love to lose, it has already been lost.
If there is change to be faced, it has already happened.
We love you.
We see you.
We see this.
There is grace here.
The only one
and really, truly, the only one
who has not accepted
what has already happened